I am one of those that strongly believe that our loved ones stay with us for a period of time, maybe even years after they pass and sometimes they help us achieve something or stop us from doing something we shouldn’t.

Our spouses may choose the method that may be better suited to us, so don’t be surprised if our experiences are different.  However, any belief that we have lost them or that they have gone somewhere unnecessarily increases the sense of loss. It also makes it more difficult, and sometimes impossible, for them to make contact with us. Knowing that they have not gone anywhere, that they have simply released physicality and that they remain around us as a full consciousness makes it possible for them to relate to us. 

Some of the methods that they may use to communicate with us are:

SIGNS:  They can manifest in Songs when suddenly you turn the radio on and your favourite song is playing. Through Birds, generally close to you, in the oddest places or recurrent in a spot that meant something for you as a couple, Robins are a good sign that your loved one is visiting you.  In Rainbows, this is my husband’s favourite, he likes to display rainbows in our birthdays or other special occasions. They may also choose feathers, or in shapes in the Clouds.  These are just some common examples but they may chose other objects for which you may find some special meaning.   

DREAMS: Through our dreams, they can come and give us short messages, however, these can sometimes trigger strong emotions in us, if you are likely to be upset after the dream, you may not experience it for a while, if you however, get a sense of peace, then your loved one will be more prompt to come to you in that form.

MESSAGES: Sometimes I look at my husband’s picture and thoughts come to my mind that I know weren’t mine.  In my moments of despair, I have asked for signs and he has given them to me.  Sometimes these can also come from other people, when you hear the message, you know it came from somewhere beyond.  It can help to talk or write to our loved one, it can help to feel them close.  If you need their help, don’t be afraid to ask for it, they may respond or manifest in beautiful inexplicable ways. 

MEDIUMS: I am very fortunate to be close to three people that have either talked to him or seen him.  I do believe on this, since the messages are definitely from him. Something I have noticed is that my husband has chosen one of the three on top of the others to communicate with me.  I believe they can choose whoever they feel more comfortable with.  If you are called to do it, research a few names and contact the one where you feel a good vibration towards or has good recommendations.

FEELING THEIR PRESENCE: Some of you may even feel their presence, this feels like there is someone in the room with you but does not scare you, there is a sense of peace and warmth around them.  You may even feel a hug – a physical warm surrounding your body. 

One thing I have learnt is that feeling their presence, can only happen if we are open, calm and in a state of contentment.  They are now spirits of light and therefore vibrating at a much higher frequency, if we are however, feeling very low, we would be vibrating at a much lower frequency, and it is very difficult for them to reach us in that state.   You may remember the film What Dreams May Come with Robbin Williams, it kind of depicts what I am talking about.